Skip to main content

How to Mend a Broken Heart and Move on Easily?


Mending broken heart
 ‘Not my photograph’ -Big thanks to the owner-


Loving someone is feeling awesome indeed.

It is really nice to be in love, knowing someone is there for you to protect you, to fill all the emptiness in your heart, to support you and hug you in times of trouble and lift you up if you feel down, it really feels good, right? You have someone with you if wanted to dine outside if you wanted to watch a movie, if you want to go out of town, someone is with you to take care of you. It’s awesome, indeed. But being in love makes you vulnerable because you become dependent on the people you love, you will be going to get hurt easily if he betrays you. Love is like a business, it’s full of risk. Once you invest a feeling for someone, you also take that risk. Your business may grow and make a lot of profit but you can also be lost in one wrong move and decided to close down your business.  As well as, if you love someone, it may grow and continue to bloom but if you made a mistake, the feeling will get loss. But like a business, you can still start all over again and maybe do it better this time because you already learn your lesson from your past experience. But it doesn’t mean you cannot make a mistake again, but it’s ok you can try it a hundred times, even a thousand until you will find you’re the one. Just learn to love again, remember that we are only human, everyone can make a mistake. No one has the right to judge you, except yourself alone.



                                            ‘Not my photograph’ -Big thanks to the owner-

But going back on track, getting back yourself again from your old self needs time and a lot of effort.



What you will need to do to mend your broken heart?


If your loved one betrays you and you felt heartbroken, as a human you will feel the pain, loss of appetite and you feel like the whole world is buhat buhat mo, you feel the weight of it. And you can’t move, you can do nothing, you don’t want to do anything, as if your brain is dead because of the strong pain you felt deep inside your heart and you can feel the shortness from breathing from too much crying. You felt that no one is there to help you, everybody is abandoning you, it seems that no one cares about what you felt. It’s ok, it’s part of the process, it’s normal. You can get through it. You just need a comfortable place, your own place to be alone to get through all of this.


After you cried a lot, after all the pain you felt. After going through it, you will surpass it and will be realized that you need to be strong and you need to live, you will start thinking that you still have family and friends.


If your confusion subsides and gets back your mind from normal, talk to a person that you trust that you know will care for you. You need positive feedback and you need to feel that someone is there to support you and willing to become your strength. Good words and positive interaction will help you to feel better.


Find your strength, you need to get going. Life is good and it’s waiting for you. Always think that your family is there waiting for your old self. By being strong, you need to accept the fact that it does not end well for you and your partner.

 

Then learn to let go, don’t try to do anything to win him/her back or take revenge, just let go and learn to be independent again, anyway when you are single, you are alone and you still live and doing fine. Maybe making a list of all the bad things about him/her will help you to feel disgusted with him/her and you can convince yourself that he/she is not worth it. If it will help you to go out and release your anger, for example by kicking a ball thinking it’s him or go to a boxing gym and punch the boxing bag that has his/her face attached to it. Sometimes it helps you to feel better. Try to convince yourself more by always reminding yourself that you don’t need anyone. Continue doing it until you realized it’s really gone.


Now, move on. Create a new world for you only, for a moment. Let yourself gain your full strength, you need to get over it completely. By getting over completely, you need to forget the bad things that happened before and you need to forgive the person that causes you pain. You can only tell that you are over from him/her if you don’t feel anything towards him/her anymore, anything, nothing, as in "ALL GONE". I know it’s really hard because he/she causes all the hardship you felt but you need to accept the fact that the past is past, and everything about the past should remain as a memory. After you gain yourself completely, let yourself love again. Maybe in God’s time, you will find the true love that is really for you, and this time it will last long and forever.



You might also be interested in the following articles below:

How to write a graduation speech?
How to lose weight in just 4 weeks?
The truth behind reincarnation, is it really true?



“Life is too short, always choose Happiness because you deserve it!”
 *Follow us by Email for more quality content Tips and Blogs*
Thank You:-)



Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Sarah Geronimo's Success Story

Sarah Geronimo is a Filipino singer, actress, television personality, and producer. Born on July 25, 1988, in Santa Cruz, Manila, Philippines, she is widely regarded as one of the most successful and influential artists in the Philippines. ‘Not my photograph’ -Big thanks to the owner- Geronimo rose to prominence in the early 2000s when she won the television singing competition "Star for a Night" in 2003 at the age of 14. Her powerful vocals and charismatic stage presence captured the hearts of Filipinos and catapulted her to stardom. Following her win, she signed a recording contract with Viva Records and released her debut album, "Popstar: A Dream Come True," which became a commercial success. Since then, Sarah Geronimo has released numerous albums, singles, and soundtracks, showcasing her versatility as a performer. She has explored various musical genres, including pop, R&B, ballads, and dance music, and has received critical acclaim for her vocal prowess an

Toni Fowler's Life & Success

Toni Fowler, whose real name is Maria Antonette Harmonia Fowler, is a popular Filipino social media influencer, YouTuber, and actress. She gained fame through her YouTube channel, where she shares lifestyle vlogs, beauty tips, and personal experiences. While I don't have access to real-time information, I can provide an overview of Toni Fowler's life and success based on what was known up until September 2021 .                                               ‘Not my photograph’ -Big thanks to the owner- Early Life and Career Beginnings: Toni Fowler was born on February 2, 1997, in Davao City, Philippines. She grew up in a middle-class family and pursued her education at the University of Mindanao. Toni initially worked as a salesperson before venturing into social media. Social Media Influence and YouTube Success: Toni Fowler started her social media journey by creating her YouTube channel in 2018. Her channel gained popularity with her content revolving around beauty tips, lifes

Moira's Life & Success

Moira Dela Torre is a Filipino singer-songwriter who gained popularity for her soulful voice and heartfelt compositions. Born on November 4, 1993, in Pasay City, Philippines, she began her musical journey at a young age and eventually rose to prominence in the Philippine music industry. ‘Not my photograph’ -Big thanks to the owner- Moira's breakthrough came in 2017 when she joined the reality singing competition "The Voice of the Philippines." Although she didn't win the competition, her participation showcased her exceptional talent and captivated the hearts of many viewers. Following her stint on the show, Moira released her debut single "Malaya," which became a massive hit and introduced her unique musical style to a broader audience. Since then, Moira Dela Torre has achieved numerous successes in her career. She has released several hit singles and albums, consistently topping music charts in the Philippines. Her music is known for its emotional depth, r